Last year during the holidays I started a new tradition. After reading this message, would you take a moment to join me for it this year?
Out of the hundreds of people who have been remembered at vigils along this walk route, there have been four vigils at which the loved ones of the victims have been present. At all vigils we’ve remembered those who’ve suffered the worst fate that comes from hate people face based on their perceived or actual gender identity, gender expression, and sexual orientation – murder or suicide. But at these four vigils, something rooted deep in my soul. Each time I looked a victim’s loved ones in the eyes, the gravity of their loss became painfully real.
At these vigils, victim’s loved ones have shared how filled with love and light their baby was, how much it still hurts, stories about their child/uncle/brother/sister/cousin/friend/ lover, and so much more.
Specifically, they’ve talked about…
Joey’s beautiful two spirited nature.
The way Ryan Z. wanted to be remembered.
Their beautiful Troy Boy.
The endearing nature of Ryan S.’s World.
Today, I will light a candle and hold a moment of silence to remember specifically Joey Harris, Ryan Zicha, Troy Clattenburg-Martinez, Ryan Skipper, and all of their loved ones. I will also remember everyone I don’t know who has suffered from this kind of hate.
Would you join me today by doing the same?
Sending light and love to all.
Alan
